True Love, one who is filled with the love of God, obeys God. In these souls, God perfects His character, His love. Christ learned obedience through suffering; That suffering was for God’s name sake. So we who love God shall suffer learning obedience for Christ name’s sake. When one loves God, they obey God’s voice- His word. God’s love is patient, kind, self-sacrificing; faithful, it chastises for it is both Judgement and mercy.
Godly love is not one giving into another’s wants or ways to satisfy the flesh/self. God’s love is not the love that the world knows nor the love their standards define… The world knows not God nor His character; thus, they, the heathen, the ungodly, the wicked, the evil, the sinner choosing to remain in sin CANNOT DEFINE WHAT GOD’S LOVE IS.